I realized, with only a few days of 2015 left, that I did not make an “official” list of “resolutions” for this past year. I did, however, make one two years ago and I’m actually really happy with how much I’ve accomplished from that list (which are in red below)! Along with my achievements, I’ll follow the same format by including my regrets from the past two years and ambitions for the coming year.
√ Survived 2 months of a 4-hour round-trip commute to and from work. It wasn’t easy by any means.
√ Moved into an apartment with Tom in Brooklyn, cutting commute time to less than an hour round-trip. We pay too much money for too little space, but for now it works.
√ Graduated from Teachers College, CU with my Masters in Mathematics Education.
√ Made it through the remainder of my aide job and booked my first real teaching job at the school I was already working at.
√ Got married and it was the most perfect day. Everything was as we wanted, except for my mom not being there.
√ Had an amazingly wonderful honeymoon in Montauk.
√ Had our second reception to include my mom and upstate family and friends in our celebration.
√ Kept up with student loans and actually paid the higher interest one off! We also refinanced the rest so the payments and interest rate is lower.
√ Survived my first year of teaching and re-booked a job at the same school as a full-time Math teacher.
√ Started working out regularly after school and even got one of my coworkers to join me – we still work out 2-3 times per week together!
√ Celebrated our one-year anniversary by going to Montauk; we stayed in the same B&B as our honeymoon. It was tough with my feet all wrapped and swollen, but we had a good time regardless.
√ Became close friends with my coworkers because I work with so many amazing people.
√ Became more confident in myself and my abilities AND feel a little more confident when it comes to debating. I’m by no means perfect or a know-it-all so I’m still working on this; it’s a daily struggle.
- Not getting any pets. This is a regret that couldn’t be helped since our landlady is anti-anything-that-might-cause-bugs-of-any-kind-to-invade. I have a small Christmas-tree-esque plant…shhh, don’t tell her!
- Not becoming friends with people sooner; this has been happening with me for years, and I hate that I miss out on so much potential time with awesome people because I doubt myself or feel too overwhelmed with life/work/what they think of me/etc. to make the effort.
- Not reading enough due to lack of time and energy.
- Not actively finding a church to attend regularly.
- Not visiting friends and family more.
- Not traveling more, in general. This includes exploring NYC.
- Not working out more and having more self-control when it comes to delicious treats and all other foods that I like.
- Continue to grow my self-confidence, especially when it comes to how well I do my job.
- Read more of everything, especially current events and other important historical stuff.
- Write more – on this blog, in my journal, letters to people, etc.
- Find a church to attend consistently and become an active member in; this has been a work in progress for quite awhile now and has become one of my biggest struggles.
- Get a frame for my Masters degree; it’s the most expensive piece of paper I will ever own, so why not try to keep it safe?
- Travel more – we already have one trip set for spring break, but I’d love to go anywhere and everywhere.
- Become more disciplined when working out and choosing to eat healthier. I’m starting by trying to replace one meal with a homemade juice/smoothie/protein drink 3 days per week. If this works, I’ll do my best to increase the frequency.
I’d be interested to hear your greatest (or smallest) achievements in the past year as well as what you hope to accomplish in 2016 and beyond. I hope everyone has a safe and happy New Year’s Eve as well as an amazing 2016!